As people become more open about sex and emotional needs, sex dolls become more popular these days. They not only function as physical pleasure — they can also be warm, quiet friend that will always stand by you when you need. If you are lonely, a little bit introverted in talking to people, or simply feel curious, a sex doll will give you comfort both body and soul.
If you’re a beginner of using a sex doll, maybe you already have many questions in your head: How to use her? What should I pay attention to? How to properly take care of her? Don’t worry — this manual will lead you step by step, so you don’t commit foolish error and can enjoy the experience from the beginning.
Preparation Before First Use
Check What’s in the Box. When your doll comes in, double-check that everything is there:
- Sex Doll as photoed
- Wig as photoed
- Disposable Heating Rod (Free gifts, no return or exchange)
- Vaginal Cleaning Tool (Free gifts, no return or exchange)
- Random Sexy Lingerie (Free gifts, no return or exchange, only for 100cm+ sex doll)
Before Use:
- Wipe the body parts touching you, like the vagina, anus, and mouth, with sterile wipes or 75% medical alcohol pads.
- Always lubricate with water-based lubricant first, or use a lubricated condom. If not sufficiently moist, the skin may tear.
After Use:
- Rinse the lubricant off with clean water first. Then rinse the sex doll for 2–3 minutes. Be gentle with the doll, especially when washing the anus and vagina. Never use a strong jet of water directly.
- If you use shower gel, be sure to dilute it with water in advance. Harsh soap is bad for the doll.
- Do not rinse the doll under running water. Instead, let it air dry in a cool place or use a soft cloth that won’t color.
- After drying, dust with a little talcum powder and store the doll in a dark location away from water.
Key Tips:
- Don’t let water come into the neck joint — it may rust and destroy the doll.
- For non-wash-off stains, use mineral oil or makeup remover.
- If there is a voice or heat mechanism on your doll, don’t wash the whole body. Instead, use a damp cloth to wipe it.
First-Time Must-Know Tips
Always Use Lube
Lubricant is necessary for comfort and safety. It makes it simpler to insert and protects your material-safe TPE/silicone from damage. Never use oil- or silicone-based lubricants—TPE or silicone will be damaged.
Extra Tip: Warm up the lubricant in your hands first—yay, so much better.
Take It Slow
Treat the doll like a real partner, and not like a project. Nice and slow, especially missionary position. It gives you more control and less risk of tearing or ruining the inner framework.
Don’t Make Unnatural Movements
Even though the joints do bend, they also have their breaking points. Don’t go opening her legs too far apart or twisting her arms at an unnatural degree. It can cause irreparable damage.
Simple Things to Make It Feel More Real
Warm Her Up
The material might be cold at first. The following needs to be done to warm her up:
- Electric blanket (do not make too hot)
- USB heating rod (insert the vagina first before use)
- Leave her in a room with sunlight for a while
Warming her up makes the experience feel natural and real.
Dress Her Up
Lingerie, school uniform, nurse uniform, or your own shirt can give her a fresh look and several fantasies. Don’t be in black for extended durations—it can discolor her skin.
Try Wigs and Perfume
Different sex doll wigs are equivalent to different styles:
Blonde sweetheart, black-haired princess, or short-haired girl-next-door. Leave her clothing with a touch of perfume (not on her skin) to set the mood.
Maintenance and Cleaning Sex Doll
Clean the Inside Thoroughly
Clean all parts from the vagina, anus, and mouth with a rinse bottle. Only use warm water and soap which is very mild. Attempt to dry completely with a cloth or air from a cold blow dryer. Then use powder again to exclude mold.
Whole Body Bathing
You may “bathe” her once a month. Use warm water and a soft cloth to gently clean her. Do not soak her or get water in the neck or joints. Dry her thoroughly and dust her again.
Storage Tips to Prevent Damage
Don’t Sit Too Long
Having her in a seated or facedown position for an extended period might lead to indentations or deformations. It’s better to leave her flat or hang her.
Give Her a Good Home
Put your love doll in a dry, cool, well-ventilated place. Place her in her original box, sex doll cover bag, or sex doll hanging stand. Don’t put her under sunlight, heat, ink, or dark clothing.
Avoid Common Mistakes
- Oil-based lube → hurts her on her body
- Sudden movement → can rip
- Cleaning-free storage → can cause bacteria or mold
- Sitting for a long time → gets deformed
- Wearing dark clothes at night → may leave stains
Emotional Readiness
It should not come as a surprise to feel a little clumsy, nervous, or even excited the very first time. Some may end up feeling lonely afterwards, and it is okay too. A sex doll is no substitute for real intimacy but offers judgment-free, quiet comfort without expectation. She is your fantasy space, where you are in control.
Conclusion
Your first experience can set the tone for your attitude towards sex dolls in general. So make it a good one: wash her carefully, use enough lubricant, go slowly, and be gentle. You’ll be surprised at how realistic and pleasurable the experience can be.
Three Golden Rules:
- Treat her like a real partner, and she will give you comfort and pleasure.
- Good cleaning and powdering regularly can make her last over 3 years.
- Try out various clothing and roleplay to prevent boredom and keep it exciting.
Keep in mind: She’s more than a sex toy — she’s your best friend in life’s most silent, intimate moments. In case you have other questions, don’t hesitate to comment or contact us. We post frequent sex doll tips and user Q&As to assist you every step of the way.